It's a great pleasure for a transgender to find someone who is really interested in her. But don't let joy blind your eyes and make you lose your judgment until you are sure that this person is true to you and that this person is suitable for you. Some people want to try a TS hookup relationship, not because they are really obsessed with such a relationship, but just because they want to seek excitement and freshness. Some people will hook up with you and date other cisgender people at the same time. Some of them will still focus on your gender in a transitional way while pursuing you. At this time, whether you have accurate judgment plays a very important role. If you're just looking for hookups, then that's not that important. However, if you are looking for a serious TS dating relationship, you should be more alert.
He won’t focus on your gender
For those hooking up finders who just want to find excitement in such a relationship, their real goal is to explore your body, not your emotions. One of the obvious features of this is that it will make your gender a permanent topic. When a person expresses his love to you and constantly asks questions about your gender, then you should be alert. A person who really loves you will not always mention these sensitive topics. He knows that these questions may remind you of a lot of painful memories, so they will not rashly ask these questions, but wait until the trust between you is established and you are willing to share with him. So don't lose your head because of a person's passion for you. Only those who treat you sincerely deserve your open heart.
He will support you all the time
Compared with cisgender people, transgender people need to pay more attention to the fact that the date you are looking for must be someone who supports you unconditionally. Many times in life, because people do not understand you, you are often helpless. If your ts date can't support you and help you when you need help, then the relationship doesn't make sense. So when you talk about your decision or your changes, if your partner always expresses his negative emotions and doesn't give you any spiritual support, it means that he doesn't think about you from your perspective at all. Whether you need to leave such a person is a question you need to consider.
His expectation is consistent with your gender identity
If he really suits you, then in a dating relationship, many of his expectations are consistent with your gender identity, including expectations on sex. If you're a MTF, but your date is always focused on your genitals, that's a red flag in your relationship. For a man who really loves you, he will treat you as a woman, not a woman with a male reproductive organ. Once you find that your partner's concerns and expectations for you do not match your gender identity, you should consider giving up the relationship.